So why is it better that it was you instead? You'd never have let me go alone, why was it okay for you? I didn't need protection, I needed you and she took you from me because you didn't even let me know what you were planning. How is that okay?

[It's not okay, it hasn't been for all the years she's been without him and hating him for trying to be such a damn hero that he didn't even give her the option.]

This is the exact same thing Diego, you can't keep things from me because you don't want me to get hurt, it hurts worse when I get to find out like this.